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Looking Out the Window: Carlene Havel Talks About Evidence Not Seen Based on "Love Keeps No Record of Wrongs" from I Corinthians 13: 5, Book Nine in Prism Book Group's Love Is...Series



St. Paul took a whole chapter in I Corinthians listing various hallmarks of love. Rather than attempt a pat definition, he revealed some of loveā€™s many facets, turning it over and over as one might a brilliant, perfectly-cut diamond.

Since love is such a broad topic, letā€™s zero in on one aspectā€”romantic love. When a special person makes the heart beat faster, regardless of the season of life, we begin to question our emotions. Am I in love?  How will I know when it happens? How can I be sure when it is the real thing? Living a few years teaches us romantic love is accompanied with tender feelings, but that ā€œgushyā€ feeling alone is not enough to stand the test of time. Love is more.  Real romance involves two people who care enough for each to put the other ahead of themselves.  In a ā€œme firstā€ instant gratification world, that kind of commitment is rare.  Yet it is the kind of giving, sharing love we hunger for at our very core.

Do I love him? Does he love me?  A simple test would be to consider each of the characteristics of love from I Corinthians.  Are we kind to each other?  Are we patient with each other? And so on.   Many heartbreaks could be avoided by thinking through that Biblical checklist, and turning away from a relationship with too many ā€œnoā€ answers.  Another personā€™s love is not directly measureable. We canā€™t take out a yardstick and see how it stacks up. Instead, we observe love by its impact.  Oscar Hammerstein II is credited with this little rhyme that captures a singular way of looking at love:

ā€œA bell is not a bell till you ring it. 

A song is not a song till you sing it.

Love in your heart isnā€™t put there to stay. 

Love isnā€™t love till you give it away.ā€



Prism Book Groupā€™s ā€œLove Isā€¦ā€ series takes its inspiration from I Corinthians chapter 13.  Eventually there will be a short novel that takes its theme from one of the aspects of true love.  My contribution to this series is ā€œEvidence Not Seenā€, inspired by ā€œLove keeps no record of wrongs.ā€ Or, if you prefer the lyrical language of the old King James translation, ā€œthinketh no evil.ā€  I hope those who read my story find it to be true to that sentiment.

 In the final analysis, we are left with faith, hope, and love.  What a marvelous trilogy!  And the greatest, of course, is love.  May we all practice it faithfully, daily, unrelentingly.  Love never fails.

Check out Carleneā€™s contribution to Prism Book Groupā€™s new Love Is seriesā€¦





Evidence Not Seen

ā€œLove keeps no record of wrongsā€¦ā€ 1 Corinthians: 13:5


Although attorney Jeff Gallowayā€™s career is in high gear, his personal life is a mess. Just before his father returns home from a 27-year stretch in prison, his girlfriend dumps him. When a chance encounter begins to blossom into new romance, soft-hearted Melanie Clark encourages Jeff to find a way to forgive his fatherā€™s long absence.

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